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Jumat, 07 Juli 2017
House renovations take one The Floors
Oh, hey! Just coming up for air over here and I feel the need to report on some major home renovations that have taken place in the 3 weeks we've owned our house. I feel like we are machines with all of this DIY-madness and yet our pesky 'real jobs' are seriously affecting our ability to get things done as quickly as we'd like. There are only so many hours in the day, right?
Remember that there are the Big Three projects we want to complete prior to moving into the house: 1. The floors, 2. The kitchen, and 3. Painting. This tiny little list is a little deceiving because simple words like 'do the kitchen' actually means spending hundreds of hours on various projects within the four kitchen walls. A little word like 'paint' doesn't really capture the fact that we are painting every wall in the house, the ceilings of some rooms, the crown molding, wood trim, etc etc etc. I am about painted out, my friends, but we aren't quite finished yet.
And so, 'part one' of our renovations shall be documented here. Because one of out of our three big projects is complete!! The floors are done, holla!! And so a big chunk of our budget is also gone:)
1. The Floors.
Well, if you do remember, our entire house was carpeted with blue wool carpeting including the stairs and every bedoom on the second floor (well, technically the bedrooms and hallways up there weren't blue but whatever.) The kitchen contained some awesome 70's linoleum that was a lovely creamy/gray color. And yet we knew our entire house MUST have original hardwood flooring hiding underneath the carpet and linoleum. So on the second night of owning our house, after Truman went to bed, I went over there with Nate and my father-in-law while Lois listened to Truman's baby monitor at home. And the boys went.to.town on that carpeting.
They pulled every single strip of it up on their own in two nights. Then they had to remove all of the little boards with eleventy billion nails and staples across all of our floors. They only cussed a few times and I think the worst of it was on the stairs, where there were seriously about a million staples just hanging out on our wood. Then they had to gather up all of the nasty carpet pieces, the deathly splintered wood strips, and the numerous nails/staples and they hauled it off to the dump in a friend's big truck. I think it took about 3 loads to get rid of it all and I actually did help gather some of it up because I could tell that this project was getting VERY old to the men:) I don't think any of us were too terribly sad to say goodbye to that wool carpeting and I know Nate's allergies were really giving him hell after all of that work. But the good news is: by having the boys do all of this prep work for our floors, we saved about $600 bucks! The hardwood flooring company that came in later said the guys did a great job and it was a total money saver on our end and so I declare it was worth it. :) They did not touch the linoleum in the kitchen, though, since it was 3 layers deep and full of black tar that I was worried contained asbestos. We gladly paid an extra $150 to have the pros remove that junk.
(the uncovered hardwood discovered! And the kitchen linoleum, too)
So next step was getting the professional company to come and give us an estimate. Because our floors were 'protected' by the carpet for the past 40 years they were in really, really good shape. But man, that varnish was pretty freaking ugly and we knew the floors needed a good sanding, then a stain, and then a finish. The company we chose was super fast with their work and it only took them two days to sand the entire place, one day to stain, and then two days to apply the finish. Amazing. If we had attempted this task on our own I think we'd still be sanding our life away.
(after day one of sanding...wow!)
After they did the sanding we could immediately see the lovely potential in our wood floors---which have very narrow planks at just 1.5 inches, compared to the typical 2.25 inches you see. The entire house has red oak wood except for the kitchen, where it's maple instead. I was beyond stressed when I had to pick out the stain all by myself on a day Nate was working. They showed me these three options and I was sweating bullets about this decision. Although Truman was present during the turmoil he was mostly focused on his Elmo DVD and didn't exactly help me out too much.
(nutmeg, golden oak, or natural finish without stain. I picked the middle 'golden oak' after much debate between that and the nutmeg. I really did love the darker stain but was worried it was a bit ashy. Plus the hardwood dudes thought the golden oak would look best and swore it would turn out darker when applied to the entire floors, along with the top coat finish. Seriously such a big decision!)
We knew we'd want the oak in the majority of the house to be stained, but the maple in the kitchen should always remain natural, apparently. After being really worried that the kitchen would have a lot of damage to the original wood, considering the layers of linoleum and years of being totally hidden--there was only one small repair that was needed in there. The rest of the wood was in 'excellent shape.' The repair required the company cutting down 'standard' size planks to our narrow width, sanding, and finishing it off. I am so glad we had them repair that patch for us. Again, money well spent, in my opinion.
(before--in the kitchen, after sanding, discovering the missing patch of wood.)
(after--note the new replaced wood on the bottom right corner of this pic. Fully refinished without stain in the kitchen!)
We chose to 'upgrade' our finish to the top of the line, strongest/hardest brand out there. It only needed two coats and it should last us a VERY long time. I have to say that I am obsessed with our hardwood floors now and it was money well spent (although it did cost a pretty penny). And what a blessing that the floors were in such great shape under the carpet and that even the kitchen turned out so wonderfully. We were worried the kitchen might be in rough shape and we'd have to tile it or lay down engineered wood instead. But nope, all original stuff, baby. (Besides that little patch in the kitchen)
Final reveal photos!!
(Main room before we moved in...)
(After removing the carpet...)
(After sanding...)
(Ta Da!! Stained and Refinished)
I just realized I haven't taken any pictures of the upstairs bedrooms with the refinished floors. I promise that we also did the entire second floor, too. You will see more pictures of the upstairs in my future 'painting posts', though, don't worry.
And so, project #1 out of 3 is done. And of course, this is the only one that was done mostly by the professionals. The kitchen and the painting is pretty much all us. Stay tuned for updates on those babies!
Jumat, 09 Juni 2017
House renovations take two Painting up a storm
My biggest project in our house thus far has definitely been painting. Nate hates to paint and so he's mostly focusing all of his time on the kitchen, which is fine by me because pulling down cabinet doors and fixing up wood holes sounds awful to me. I love to paint and volunteered to tackle the massive project of transforming our house with a little COLOR on the walls. Plus painting every other conceivable surface out there, but we'll get to that in a minute. I love picking paint colors even though it's pretty stressful for me, too. Nothing like painting the interior of a 1700 square foot house in just a few weeks to make a lady crazy, right? But we have to have the paint done before we move in---it just makes more sense to do it before furniture and people are in the way. Want to see what I've done so far?
MAIN ROOM transformation:
This was the room that had all cream colored walls, crown molding, and ceilings. Along with blue carpet. It's also basically huge which is great for when we live in the room, but not so fun while painting every surface of the room. At 24 feet by 13 feet, it's easily the largest room of the house and where I forsee us spending most of our time. Wanna see the true before picture again?
Bam.
I decided to go with Behr's 'Cloudy Day' for the wall color, and picked two shades lighter for our ceilings in there (which was basically 'Wave Crest' plus another 25% shot of white). Next came the fun part of removing ALL of the hideous window coverings including about 5 types of rods and screws and hinges on each window. This was not fun, guys. I wiped off all the walls and woodwork and got to town. I think it took me about 5 hours to paint these walls with some help from my mother-in-law on the edging (I prefer rolling it on, she likes edging, therefore we are a perfect pair.). The ceiling and crown molding paint jobs took another 5 hours. Ick. And so?
Main room walls during the painting day. Also, note that the ceilings are still white at this point and the crown molding still 'creamy'. Which, to me, is such a waste because the crown molding is SO pretty--why not make it pop out more?
Main room after walls and ceiling painted, but before crown molding turned cream into white:
And after the crown molding was transformed by the white. Isn't it insane how the ceiling looks a lot less blue with that white against it?
During the crown molding paint job:
All that is left to pain in here is the dark woodwork :::dodging the stone-throwing from the crowd again, as I type that phrase:::: I really do think it will be amazing with bright white wood everywhere though. It's very 'us' and I know it's going to suck big time to put in the hours for painting wood work. But I really do think it will be worth it!
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DINING ROOM transformation:
After a lot of debate, I decided to keep the dining room the same color as the family/main room. They flow together very nicely so it makes sense and plus, this dining room will be one that keeps some of it's dark woodwork (the built-in and the windows will remain) so I'm sure that will make the blue walls look totally different than the main room. I wanted to paint the ceilings in here, too, but it sucked so bad in the main room I just can't bring myself to break my neck in there again. Plus I ran out of paint although I thought I bought enough of the 'Wave Crest' ceiling shade for the two rooms. I take that as a sign from God that the ceilings might remain cream colored in there. We did paint the crown molding bright white though.
Built-in buffet before paint and before I hacked away those ugly curtains:
And after the paint. Also shows a nice shot of our new floors! Never mind that the buffet is a huge storage area for us right now.
After blue goes on the walls, looking into the sunroom. But this doesn't show the crisp white crown molding just yet. It's there but no pictures to show it off.
Only remaining paint project in the dining room will be the baseboards and door frames. Plus those French doors that lead into the sunroom. Sigh. Lots of painting still ahead. I believe it took us about 3 hours to paint the walls and another 1.5 hours to do the crown molding. That stuff is no joke with all of those little twists and turns but I love it. :)
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SUNROOM transformation:
I haven't gotten any great pictures of our sunroom to show you just yet. Must work on that. But this is the room that I painted Behr's 'Peridot' green and I just sort of like it. I am hoping that with white woodwork I will love it though. I have yet to paint the crown molding a bright white and I think I will actually muster up the energy to paint the ceiling two shades lighter than the walls, which is Behr's 'White Willow' color. It's only 10x12 so it can't be THAT bad, right?
Before painting walls, and before floors:
After painting the walls green, and after floors are refinished:
Painting this room, including the rolling and edging, only took us about 3 hours. Gotta love smaller rooms.The ongoing paint projects in here: crown molding, all woodwork, and ceiling (plus French doors).
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BEDROOM transformations:
I don't need to do much else besides the walls in these three bedrooms. I'm not going to bother with the ceilings, and I'll probably just leave the crown molding the off white color. The other woodwork is all white, except for the baby's room---for some unknown reason, they painted that entire room a pastel yellow that is really ugly, if you ask me. So I guess I will be painting her woodwork white in there. Luckily the other two bedrooms are already the color I'd choose for the woodwork, though.
Master bedroom:
I chose Behr's 'Honey Bird' yellow for our room. It's a bold choice, probably the brightest room of the house, but it's going to be SO awesome combined with our gray and white bedspread. There's nothing like a warm, inviting color in the master to make this a fun room. It took me about 3 hours to do this room.
Here is the true before, carpet and all:
During painting day:
After! The floors aren't stained/finished here, though. And I swear the real color is not such a bright 'highlighter yellow'. It's actually quite pretty in real life (aside from iPhone pictures).
Truman's room:
This is turning out to be the room that is the thorn in my side right now. I wanted T's room to be a nice, pale gray. And I KNEW it would be hard to nail the right shade but I was still too cheap to actually buy samples first. As soon as I put Behr's 'Gentle Rain' color on his walls, I panicked. I really thought it looked lavender and I was seriously thinking about returning the entire gallon and starting from scratch. But I kept plugging away because Nate and my mother-in-law (and everyone else that I've shown) swear it's a fine gray, not too purple. I'm still not 100% convinced, though, and I'm hoping that by adding T's bright colored accents in there I barely even notice my pet peeve wall color. Truman didn't yell 'PURPLE' when he saw it, either. So that's a great sign. It took me 3 hours to do this room (apparently that is how long it takes me to do most of these rooms)
Before:
During the painting episode:
After painting, floors only sanded but not stained in this shot:
It really does look purple in this pic, huh? In real life I don't even think it's *that* bad.
Baby's room:
This room also took me 3 hours to paint and I actually did it one night after Truman went to bed. I picked Behr's 'Wildwood Spring' which is a pretty robin's egg blue to me. I just really hate that I still have to paint her woodwork white because it almost looks white in this 'before' picture from online. I wonder if the owners repainted the whole thing after this picture was taken and went with the yellow instead. Should have asked me first !! :)
Before we moved in:
After I painted the walls, but before floors were stained, and before I bother to paint the woodwork WHITE and not this ugly yellow:
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So that's that. A ridiculous amount of painting on my part, huh? I just added it up and that looks like about 27 hours of straight painting and I'm not even done yet. I really do enjoy painting, thankfully, but man---it's a lot of work! Luckily, with my trusty mask and lots of fans I am still following doctor's orders and not killing my baby from fumes or anything.
Really not looking forward to prepping and painting all of the dark woodwork on the first floor. But I think I have convinced Nate to help with this large task. And I didn't mention the kitchen at all just yet, since that is it's own separate project and painting the walls won't come until much later. We also haven't touched either bathroom or any of the hallways with paint. Not sure I have enough energy to bother right now anyway.
Off to paint some more...
Rabu, 19 April 2017
Large Family Preparations to Leave the House This too Has a Plan
- Make lists and notes
- Prepare as much in advance as possible
- Start early - it takes what it takes
- Be the manager, not the primary "do-er"
- Three examples
- Preparing to arrive home again

I was often asked how I prepared to leave the house with our family of 11, especially when our 9 children were all 12-years-old and younger. And people who know me knew that I would have a plan to implement! *chuckle* It was not complicated, it's just a matter of being proactive - being ON PURPOSE - in creating and implementing a plan. Like my sweet friend Wendy Jeub (mother of 16) said to me once, "Make a plan, implement the plan." Failing to plan is planning to fail. Here's my plan...
Make lists and notes
I make lists for just about everything in life, because I don't like to be unprepared when it's so preventable. I like to be comfortable, relaxed, and prepared when we're out and about.
Sometimes my lists take up two 8x10 pieces of paper (when leaving for a few days), and sometimes my list is only 2 items on a post-it note stuck to the table. But there is enough going on in our house and family before we leave to go somewhere that without notes to myself it's been fairly likely that things get missed, and this can negatively impact the entire outing. If you are digitally minded and have a smart phone, iPad or other such device, you can use the calendar and set reminders, put in check lists etc. I prefer paper and pen but the media is not really the issue here. Having a plan and putting it in writing before the time to leave comes is the issue.
Lots of things seem to come up in the last 5-30 minutes before we are striving to walk out the door. For example, some children seem to get stressed when there's commotion. Not necessarily chaos, but just people scurrying about getting their selves ready, and their things ready, getting him ready *chuckle*. I'm giving a lot of verbal directions to multiple people, his day s not going in it's usual, predictable routine, and I'm usually prompting people to move right along and stay on task because we're striving for a certain time frame. His stress level can bring on additional complications such as wet pants and therefore pee on the floor, requiring then a carpet clean up and a new outfit for him. We always have everyone use the bathroom before we leave so that we can try to avoid making bathroom stops (which take a lot of time with a large family) - this takes time at home, too. Sometimes someone needs an outfit change because we just realized that what they're wearing is inappropriate for varying reasons (weather, season, length of time we'll be out of the house, etc.) Finding shoes for someone that were not put on the shoe rack where they belong. One of our youngest 4 children usually needed a diaper change at the last second (how do they always seem to know right when we need to go out the door??) So - I make lists and notes to myself so that despite the business everything gets remembered that we will need. *smile*
I write down everything we need to pack to take with us. If we're leaving the house for 3 days, then I make categorized packing lists, simply grouping things on my 8x10-inch tablet in a way that helps me think through it simply and easily, and helps me me catch items that I missed. One giant list is hard to order in my mind, so I bunch things in to groups. Such as sleeping things: sleeping bags, pillows, pj's, diapers and pull-ups, special teddy bears for young ones or a familiar blanket, pack-n-plays, tooth brushes, hair brush and squirt bottle, hair holders, older girls overnight bags, alarm clocks, menstrual items if necessary, etc. Daytime items, such as: appropriate shoes, jackets, snacks, activities, outfits and underpants, bottles & formula if we have a real little one, etc. But most of the time, preparing to leave the house requires only a short list for a short outing - even only 2-5 items! But I don't want to forget them none-the-less.
If we're leaving to go to the park, then I write on my list: picnic lunch, waters, strollers, toddler harnesses (in case "littles" are refusing to stay close enough to us when not in the stroller, or if there are larger crowds than we anticipated and a toddler could get lost), sweatshirts (weather can change quickly in the Great North West and if everyone's really cold then we have to cut the outing short). I have forgotten each of these items at different times when I haven't written them down, and it's so paralyzing! Any of these forgotten items can either cancel or greatly shorten our planned outing - such a bummer.
I also put a star next to any items that require preparation time from me. Usually I'm packing things that need to be grabbed and put into the car. But a lunch needs time to be prepared, so I star that item. This helps me plan my timing accurately. Sometimes I'm making taco popcorn to take to a friend's house to enjoy while kids play, and that needs to be prepared in advance as well.
Another thing I do that helps me to make accurate lists is to make notes to myself about certain annual events and stick those on my calendar for next year so that I'm sure to remember things that I forgot that current year. When I get a new wall calendar each year, I go through it and write down things like family birthdays or annual events such as the county fair; and I move any post-it notes to myself to the new calendar, too. I'll make a note for the 4th of July so that I remember to pack bug spray, have the children wear matching tee-shirts so that they're all easier to keep track of, bring kids pj's so that they can go to sleep at our friend's house, etc. For the Easter Egg hunt in April I want to remember to have the kids wear rubber boots as the grass is usually still muddy from spring rains. To the county fair in August, I want to remember to have the kids wear their red shirts again for easy identification, bring the toddler harnesses, bring hats for all the kids as the sun is hard on everyone's eyes all day long, and bring water bottles to help kids keep hydrated without having to buy expensive fair beverages.

I also put a star next to any items that require preparation time from me. Usually I'm packing things that need to be grabbed and put into the car. But a lunch needs time to be prepared, so I star that item. This helps me plan my timing accurately. Sometimes I'm making taco popcorn to take to a friend's house to enjoy while kids play, and that needs to be prepared in advance as well.
Another thing I do that helps me to make accurate lists is to make notes to myself about certain annual events and stick those on my calendar for next year so that I'm sure to remember things that I forgot that current year. When I get a new wall calendar each year, I go through it and write down things like family birthdays or annual events such as the county fair; and I move any post-it notes to myself to the new calendar, too. I'll make a note for the 4th of July so that I remember to pack bug spray, have the children wear matching tee-shirts so that they're all easier to keep track of, bring kids pj's so that they can go to sleep at our friend's house, etc. For the Easter Egg hunt in April I want to remember to have the kids wear rubber boots as the grass is usually still muddy from spring rains. To the county fair in August, I want to remember to have the kids wear their red shirts again for easy identification, bring the toddler harnesses, bring hats for all the kids as the sun is hard on everyone's eyes all day long, and bring water bottles to help kids keep hydrated without having to buy expensive fair beverages.

Prepare as much in advance as possible
Also due to so many things happening simultaneously just before we leave the house, I like to prepare as much in advance as possible. Items brought to the van in advance, food prepared, diaper bags filled, and such. If I know that on Monday we're going to go to the library, then when we still used them I would try to put the strollers into the van even over the weekend if I think of it, or at least the morning of our outing. We can't go into the library without having the 4 youngest kids in the double strollers, so we cannot afford to forget them. If I had not thought to get the strollers into the van in advance of that day but I would think of it a couple of hours before we leave (and it would still very possible to forget them completely!), then I'd ask one of the older kids to go get the strollers in the garage and put them right by the garage doors so we'd have to trip over them to get to the van. *smile* Not likely to forget them, then.
If we're responsible to bring chips and pop to a picnic, then those just stay in the van after we purchase those from the store so they're sure to arrive at the picnic with us.
Diaper bags get re-filled with diapers and things upon arriving back at home having used them, and put back in to the van so that they're always there ready for our use; we never have to remember to bring them as they "live" in the van ready for us.
If I need to remember to return something to my parent's house when we go there next week, then I'll put that item into the van as soon as I think of it even if it's days in advance, so I'm sure not to forget it later. The less to try to remember at the last minute the better, and the simpler actually getting out the door becomes, and the happier we all are as we're preparing to leave. *smile*
I practice organization and preparedness for our vehicle as well, in case of emergency (food, water, band aids, flashlight, etc.), or if items are forgotten (baby bottle and formula, hair holders, sunscreen, etc.) or in case things come up unexpectedly (nuts for a snack because we're late for a meal, toddler harnesses live in the van all summer just in case, etc). This has helped me greatly countless times as well. But even being prepared in advance doesn't help us if we have not left an adequate amount of time for ourselves to get ready before we leave.
I also have our environment prepared to enable us to successfully get from the house to the van as time efficiently and successfully as possible. When I say to the kids, "Okay! It's time to go, let's clean up!" With my direction they start picking up toys, straitening couch cushions, Karen (when she was 13) would pick up the twin babies and take them to the garage to get their shoes and coats on, and help Spencer (when he was 2) follow her to the garage to do the same. The "middle kids" when they were ages 9, 6, and 5 would run to the garage to get shoes and coats on. I checked my list on the table for last minute items I need to get and Melanie (12 at the time) helped me bring all that down stairs while I grabbed my purse and took Tyler (at age 3) down with me to help him get ready.
Down in the garage the older kids help younger kids get shoes and coats on, and if kids are especially rowdy that day then I'll have them all sit down on the carpet in one place while they wait to go to the van. And they all take turns using the bathroom if they haven't done so yet.
We keep the kids shoes on a huge shoe rack (a heavy-duty, plastic shelf unit for the garage, from Costco), with the shoes generally in order (one of our children's weekly job is to straiten the shoe rack, finding all the pairs and putting them together so that we can easily find them when it's time to leave).

We have the children's coats on a hanging rack also in our garage "mud room" so that we can quickly and easily put everything on out there (and when we come home shoes and coats get put away in the mud room and put away before they head inside).

When it was appropriate we had a pack-n-play out in the garage as a place where we could put the youngest ones that was safe and clean, so that they were not wandering around aimlessly, getting in to trouble, or leaving the garage to the street. (In the back of the photo is the pack-n-play)

And we require and teach the children to stay on the large carpeted area in the garage mud room, to help them be successful in obedience, and to help kids remember not to run out of the garage to the street. When I do open the garage door and encourage the kids to go get into the van, they are expected to go strait to the van and get in and buckle their seat belt immediately. No running around the van or into the cul-de-sac where I would have to then waste time corralling them all back. And no causing problems with siblings inside the van or climbing over the van seats which would eventually rip the car upholstery. Straight to seat belts. *smile*
If we're responsible to bring chips and pop to a picnic, then those just stay in the van after we purchase those from the store so they're sure to arrive at the picnic with us.
Diaper bags get re-filled with diapers and things upon arriving back at home having used them, and put back in to the van so that they're always there ready for our use; we never have to remember to bring them as they "live" in the van ready for us.
If I need to remember to return something to my parent's house when we go there next week, then I'll put that item into the van as soon as I think of it even if it's days in advance, so I'm sure not to forget it later. The less to try to remember at the last minute the better, and the simpler actually getting out the door becomes, and the happier we all are as we're preparing to leave. *smile*
I practice organization and preparedness for our vehicle as well, in case of emergency (food, water, band aids, flashlight, etc.), or if items are forgotten (baby bottle and formula, hair holders, sunscreen, etc.) or in case things come up unexpectedly (nuts for a snack because we're late for a meal, toddler harnesses live in the van all summer just in case, etc). This has helped me greatly countless times as well. But even being prepared in advance doesn't help us if we have not left an adequate amount of time for ourselves to get ready before we leave.
I also have our environment prepared to enable us to successfully get from the house to the van as time efficiently and successfully as possible. When I say to the kids, "Okay! It's time to go, let's clean up!" With my direction they start picking up toys, straitening couch cushions, Karen (when she was 13) would pick up the twin babies and take them to the garage to get their shoes and coats on, and help Spencer (when he was 2) follow her to the garage to do the same. The "middle kids" when they were ages 9, 6, and 5 would run to the garage to get shoes and coats on. I checked my list on the table for last minute items I need to get and Melanie (12 at the time) helped me bring all that down stairs while I grabbed my purse and took Tyler (at age 3) down with me to help him get ready.
Down in the garage the older kids help younger kids get shoes and coats on, and if kids are especially rowdy that day then I'll have them all sit down on the carpet in one place while they wait to go to the van. And they all take turns using the bathroom if they haven't done so yet.
We keep the kids shoes on a huge shoe rack (a heavy-duty, plastic shelf unit for the garage, from Costco), with the shoes generally in order (one of our children's weekly job is to straiten the shoe rack, finding all the pairs and putting them together so that we can easily find them when it's time to leave).
We have the children's coats on a hanging rack also in our garage "mud room" so that we can quickly and easily put everything on out there (and when we come home shoes and coats get put away in the mud room and put away before they head inside).
When it was appropriate we had a pack-n-play out in the garage as a place where we could put the youngest ones that was safe and clean, so that they were not wandering around aimlessly, getting in to trouble, or leaving the garage to the street. (In the back of the photo is the pack-n-play)
And we require and teach the children to stay on the large carpeted area in the garage mud room, to help them be successful in obedience, and to help kids remember not to run out of the garage to the street. When I do open the garage door and encourage the kids to go get into the van, they are expected to go strait to the van and get in and buckle their seat belt immediately. No running around the van or into the cul-de-sac where I would have to then waste time corralling them all back. And no causing problems with siblings inside the van or climbing over the van seats which would eventually rip the car upholstery. Straight to seat belts. *smile*
Start early - it takes what it takes
I used to make plans for our timing by saying that it should only take 15 minutes to get us all ready and in to the car - but the fact was it took longer than that, and I was only successful at being punctual to arrive places when I planned for the amount of time it actually took. When we had lots of "littles" it took more like 30-40 minutes from the time we started getting ready to go (cleaning up, gathering items, getting everyone's shoes on, using the bathroom, etc.) to the time we were driving out of the drive way. It doesn't matter how long I think it should take, and then get frustrated when it's taking way longer and then we're late. It takes what it takes, so I need to plan for that and just go with it. *smile*
In order to determine if I need to get up earlier than usual in the morning if we're leaving, I need to figure out our timing for the next morning, the night before. When they were all little I knew it took 9o minutes to get all of the youngest 7 children up by myself in the morning, get them dressed, groomed, any wet beds stripped, call older kids back to pick their clothes up from the floor and such, and to get everyone up to the table for breakfast. It doesn't matter if I think it should take less time, it always took 90 minutes. I knew how long it took me to have my Bible time in the morning, to shower, to prepare the house for the day, make breakfast, and check my to-do list and email, before then getting all of the children up in the morning. It will also take time to pack a picnic lunch for us all, to gather all of our sweatshirts, etc. I take all of this in to consideration and then determine what time to wake up in the morning if it's different than my usual time, and then we're sure to be on time. There's really no need to be perpetually late to things if one prepares in advance (generally of course - we can't always be prepared for every thing). We need to just accept the fact that it takes what it takes, and go with that. And now I do not try to do everything all by myself, by the way; I employ the whole family to get the whole family ready! *smile*
Be the manager, not the primary "do-er"
It is impossible for me to do everything myself to get the whole family ready, and simultaneously manage kids who are unoccupied; and it's important for the kids to participate in the functioning of the family, to serve, to be patient, to be creative with little ones who need help, and to be productively occupied. Everyone can help get shoes, get socks, help younger siblings, bring things down stairs, gather sweatshirts, or even just have the job of sitting and "guarding" the pile of stuff to go to the van. *chuckle* It takes all of my time, energy, and attention to be directing everyone to what they can be doing, to be monitoring that and managing behavior. My job is to be the Manager of my Home, not the primary "do-er".
Three examples
Here are 3 examples of types of planning we used to do to leave the house. I've been asked specifically about all 3 of these, so here's a glimpse into how we would do things at the Shupe household.
Church - Preparations were not too revolutionary really, they just take a plan like everything else. I actually begin the week before by making sure we have everything we need for our Shupe Surprise Sunday morning breakfast that daddy makes for us each week. It's an egg, sausage, and hashbrowns skillet called Shupe Surprise only because the kids know that I don't eat anything with the word "surprise" in it. *laugh* So they named this one for me. It does vary a bit each week and is a bit of a surprise in a way as my husband is a creative chef, cooking with the "some of this and some of that" method, but it always tastes great. We intentionally choose a high-protein and fat breakfast which will help everyone easily make it through the service without feeling hungry and tired, until we get home again for lunch.
Bob and I get up in the morning early enough to have a shower, prep for the day by checking email and plans on the calendar for errands and grocery shopping, opening up the window blinds, and sometime eating a bit of something to help hold us off until the hot breakfast is ready. We have time to talk about things as we go (not being too rushed), and see the teenage girls who are showering themselves right after us. Then we jump in to getting the youngest 7 children up.
The children's clothes are organized in our all-kids-clothing closet, and the boy's church clothes have their own basket (slacks and button down shirts and belts) so selecting an outfit for church is quick and easy. The girls dresses are hanging and also easy to select from. The oldest 3 daughters dress themselves, and I select clothes for our 6 youngest ones. I also try to remember to get out those youngest 6 children's church shoes and socks for them so that they're ready when the boys come piling in to the garage. This way I can also be sure that they wear church attire and do not grab play socks ans shoes to go with their slacks. *hmm* When I wake the kids the teenage girls and I do the youngest children's hair and teeth for them, supervise getting dressed in a timely way, and put away pj's while the children watch a documentary and wait for breakfast while daddy cooks.
When we had mostly all very little ones we would sit them all straight up to the table after getting dressed and doing hair and teeth, which also saved a great deal of time not having to clean up the toys that they can get out in a short amount of time just before we leave the house. So the littlest ones would pretty much get up, get ready, sit up for breakfast and eat, and then go strait to the van with everyone else. The older children would have been choosing easy-to-put-away activities such as books or computer learning to occupy their time until breakfast is ready.
Once I have the 7 youngest children done then I dress myself (if I do it earlier my church clothes get all wrinkly and might have water on them from hair and teeth) and eat breakfast. Then while the children are eating, Bob dresses himself for church while I manage the children at the breakfast table, and our oldest 2 daughters begin cleaning up the kitchen and loading dishes.
When everyone is done eating breakfast we go strait to the van to leave for church. We've planned to arrive at church 30 minutes early so that we have time to visit with our church family before the service begins. We have very little time to visit after the service because the children are all tired and hungry and we really need to get them home for lunch and a 2-hour naps for the youngest 4. Planning to arrive so early also enables us to have some grace time if we are running late due to unexpected things at home. If we leave the house later than desired then we only miss the visiting time, but not the beginning of the service. As you can probably imagine, and may have experienced yourselves, it's not very inconspicuous to have our family of 11 enter the services late. *chuckle* If we are able to leave the house even earlier than we planned, then we get to go on a little drive through the farm land in "our valley", which is beautiful. This time is so relaxing, and the children really enjoy it, too. This is a great incentive for us all to be on task in the morning on Sundays so we get to have the blessing of this time in the van.
This plan has worked really great for us for a long time. Of course you can choose your own "plan of attack" for getting ready for church - but having a plan is instrumental when there are so many people.
Three days away - When we go to the annual homeschool conference we look forward to every year here in Washington state, or when we go camping for a long weekend, I begin making packing lists to be gone for this duration of time about a week in advance. I just start brainstorming my packing lists, grouped in to categories that break the list down for me and help me to see it more clearly, as I mentioned earlier. This gives me several days to be remembering more items for the list as I go through our days, experiencing everything that we do and use or could need so that I can add those items and not forget anything (ideally). I'm sort of in pre-packing mode in the back of my mind that week, trying to always be aware of what I use during the day and what I could need to bring for our family while we're away.
I begin the actual packing process a day or two before we leave. I ask Bob to load the van for us with items that are bulky and do not need to go into a bag. Things like strollers and/or pack-n-plays. Then I get out duffel bags and backpacks and decide who's things will be packed together into single bags, and how to bet orchestrate clothes, etc. I think through who will be eating what, what activities we will be participating in, and what our family may be responsible for bringing for others. The more I can pack in advance the better, and the more that can get in to the car in advance, the more relaxed I can be the day that we are planning to leave. And, the less likely it is that someone will desire to have something that I've so carefully packed, and remove that thing unbeknownst to me! (Not a happy mama *chuckle*)
I also keep my packing lists with us while we're gone so that when we pack to come home again I can re-pack from that same list, preventing us from leaving items behind. This has been a great tool for me, and has helped me remember easy-to-forget things like alarm clocks, toiletry bags, and jackets when we head for home. *smile*
Another unique place we plan to leave the house for, usually annually, is to have professional photos taken (for free!).
I begin the actual packing process a day or two before we leave. I ask Bob to load the van for us with items that are bulky and do not need to go into a bag. Things like strollers and/or pack-n-plays. Then I get out duffel bags and backpacks and decide who's things will be packed together into single bags, and how to bet orchestrate clothes, etc. I think through who will be eating what, what activities we will be participating in, and what our family may be responsible for bringing for others. The more I can pack in advance the better, and the more that can get in to the car in advance, the more relaxed I can be the day that we are planning to leave. And, the less likely it is that someone will desire to have something that I've so carefully packed, and remove that thing unbeknownst to me! (Not a happy mama *chuckle*)
I also keep my packing lists with us while we're gone so that when we pack to come home again I can re-pack from that same list, preventing us from leaving items behind. This has been a great tool for me, and has helped me remember easy-to-forget things like alarm clocks, toiletry bags, and jackets when we head for home. *smile*
Another unique place we plan to leave the house for, usually annually, is to have professional photos taken (for free!).
Professional photo shoot - This happens to be an example I've already done an entire blog post on if you would like to read about that and see the pictures. I share about all of the preparations we make to ensure (as much as possible) a successful photo.
Preparing to arrive home again
This may sound funny, but I do actually prepare to arrive home again! We all appreciate walking in to an orderly home which feels relaxing and ready for the next thing on the agenda. By this I mean before we left the house earlier we had the toys cleaned-up, family room orderly, and kitchen all cleaned up. We need to be able to prepare lunch in our tiny kitchen immediately upon arrival home and we cannot do so with breakfast dishes and pans everywhere from the morning. I do not want to clean up just so that I can prepare lunch; what a waste of time. And after lunch kids will go down for naps. I do not want to spend the first 30-60 minutes of those 2 hours cleaning up the morning's mess; I would like to have those entire 2 hours of play-alone time to be productive and to sit down for a little while. I need this time to re-fuel for the rest of the day. When we proactively plan our time for when we get home, to be able to then get in to the things we need to do or would like to do, we maximize our time.
Now I don't want you to see this post as a whole list of to-do's that will stress you out! *smile* *hugs* I hope you might get some ideas of how you could approach getting out the door smoothly. And primarily I hope to help you learn a new way of thinking about your approach in order to help mainstream managing a lot of kids and keep the family on time and prepared. Preparing to leave the house does not have to be stressful or completely full of "C'mon-c'mon-c'mon!" We don't have to be perpetually late every where we go, I don't have to leave the house without make up on because I ran out of time, or forget to bring items that we need in order to make our journey pleasant and enjoyable. Remember: Make a plan, implement the plan. *smile* By making lists or notes to myself, preparing as much in advance as I can, starting early, managing the children instead of being the primary "do-er", and cleaning up the house before we leave, we can have a very enjoyable time out of the house, and look forward to arriving home again in a little while.
I'd love to hear some of your family strategies for preparing to leave the house! I am learning more great organization and planning strategies from you guys all the time, and often find myself saying to our children, "I just learned this great strategy from one of our readers..." *smile* Keep up the great sharing! *hugs*
Blessings on your efforts for your family,

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Senin, 13 Maret 2017
House Thoughts
This post has no real point except to document our gargantuan (read: expensive) dreams for this house. Nate and I love to discuss all of the options for the exterior of our home, and you can regularly find us sitting outside after kid-bedtime, going over the same ideas on repeat. I'm sure many of you can relate, especially if you have a house as old as ours, built in 1925 with constant projects in the works. Or at least, at work in our head;)
We've already done plenty of updates to the interior of our house. But now the 'big dogs' remain: windows, insulation, roof, siding, and....possible addition for a fourth bedroom and master bath. YIKES, right? But if we do these updates, we could feasibly stay here forever and we really don't want to change locations. We love everything about the inside of our house, except that we only have three beds and one full bathroom. But the exterior? Not our favorite at all.
So much brown. Wood, painted siding needs a complete scrape and re-paint job. I don't think we would replace the wood siding and cedar shakes with cement board, just to preserve the original look of the house and because the wood is in great shape (paint is not).
The roof is probably never going to leak but with a solid three layers of old shingles, it's a tear-off that needs to happen more for aesthetics than anything.
And our windows? The bottom level boasts original 90 year old windows, the upstairs have some replaced screens but are mostly original, too. We still have to switch out storms in the winter and screens in the summer, something that many people don't even understand as a possibility! Storing a boat load of heavy storm widows, then massive screens in our basement is really not fun or effective. We had an energy audit done to the house and the windows themselves are in great shape and really don't need to be fully replaced, just cleaned up on the inside and we want to get a new exterior storm/screen combo. Bear with me, folks, I know these details are boring! But look at the potential. BEFORE (current):

GLORIOUS AFTER! (a friend's husband did this photoshop version for us, love it).

We might not do a bright door and are leaning more towards restoring the original wood door, staining it dark possibly. But the color scheme of a dark gray roof, lighter gray siding with the upper cedar shakes slightly darker than the lower level, and then white trim are going to happen. I like the idea of keeping the windows darker gray with the trim white, since we love the look of our windows and want them to pop. I would even consider a fourth shade of gray for little accents around the windows and the trim.
It's all so fun to think about and dream about and talk about. Actually DOING these renovations are daunting, and we aren't crazy enough to think we can DIY it all. But Nate and my father-in-law are convinced they can scrape off the old paint on our siding, and repaint it in 'just a few weeks'. Insert major eye roll emoji here, seriously. Tony HAS scraped off all of the paint at his own house, which also has original wooden siding. He has been repainting the house for oh, four years now....but to give him credit, I know he could potentially do this mammoth project at our house. Not sure how he thinks he will have the time, though.
We'd hire someone for the roof, obviously, and would buy the exterior windows somewhere. The dudes think they can hang the new part of each window. Did I mention we have thirty-three windows in our house, and a window company once told us that an average house has thirteen windows to be replaced? Yeah, that's a fun fact. $$$$$$$. Insulation needs to go in around the house, which is a 'hire-out' job, too. Oh, and the garage. We need to repaint and re-roof the garage, too. Sigh.
The addition is a concept that just won't quit in our heads, either. We have a full, walk-up attic with a flight of stairs to the third level right now. To make it functional and not completely pitched, we'd have to re-do the back of the house at the roofline. Then we could have the attic as a master bedroom and bathroom, plus an extra room across the second level of our house where our 'airing porch' lies right now. I would think that if this addition is actually happening in the near future, we should just wait to do the roof and also the siding at that point, right?
This is when I start to space out and just stare at the 'after' picture. Isn't it pretty? Someday! We just need to decide if it's worth it to invest so much money into our beloved house, or if buying a different house makes more sense. For now we talk and dream. Extensively. Who else loves to dream about house projects with us?
Minggu, 26 Februari 2017
Christmas House Tour
I'm so sad the Christmas decor came down this week! My parents were here this weekend so I left it all up for their visit then it came down on New Year's Day. I guess it is time to document it! Upstairs cupcake tree post can be seen here. Welcome to the North Pole!
I will start with the family room since I always start up front, and really our decor is the same as always. The built ins give me lots of space to display my Christmas crap!
Love these Funko Pops! Elf on the Shelf, Rudolph, Buddy the Elf, Santa and Clark Griswold. :)
I kept our Santa dishes out on the built ins because they were too cute to put in a cupboard.
I love fun Christmas colors!
I knocked over the ornament garland TWICE this season. I need to get some hooks to keep this puppy in place.
I probably knocked it off once trying to take this picture. :)
Cheers to the family room! (and toys everywhere)
Our stockings are also still in the family room, just not on the mantle. The garland is so giant it was pushing them off. I should get command hooks to hang stockings AND to try and keep the garland on there. Hmmm... For now I liked them a lot hanging on our banister.
I only snapped a couple pics of the kitchen. You can see a few more kitchen pics on this post. Of course I had my marshmallow mugs out!
And my friend Nicole decorated my chalkboard in 2 seconds flat. Ugggh talented people!
Into the dining room! I have a mini quilt my grandma made and a couple trees.
Then it overlooks into the family room with our main Christmas tree!
I love Christmas ornaments. :) I posted this year's ornament on Instagram and the previous post.
Oh Christmas Tree!
Now back to the sideboard! Bradley loves hugging this Santa and dragging him around. :)
He also reorganizes the items on here daily. My mini decorator. :)
I like to decorate my house, my toddler and myself for Christmas! :) Gingerbread nails for the win!
I hope everyone had an amazing Christmas!
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